Love, Friendship..... Backstabbers

Why do people do the things they do? What really hurts the most is when you think someone is your friend and they go and say things behind your back. Is it jealousy, insecurity, or plain up just nasty and cruel? All of those things are what it is. People that can’t come up and say it to your face are cowards. If you have nothing nice to say just don’t say it at all. Another thing, people who attack other people for their race, religion, JOB, or etc. does that make them feel good by hurting others? What is also funny is when people try to drag other people in to the digression…. Is it because they know they are in the wrong and they need someone else there to tell them it is ok for them to do that to someone. People who do these things are wrong and way too immature. When these things happen it just shows who the true people are and who the fake are. People who tend to do this have insecurities in their life or have something going wrong so in tend to have them feel better they need to drag others down with them. What is also funny is when you talk to the person and you think that everything is settled and come to find out you hear more things behind your back. My question is how does it go till it’s too far? Things can get so out of hand that it can go as far as harassment, which is a really bad way to go. Insecure people tend to be hurt sometime in life. They tend to lack self confidence and have a lot of emotions. They are touchy about situations and offended easily. They usually ask for a second opinion on everything and are scared to do things because of what other people may think of them. Jealousy has to do with insecurity, but they resolve in negative thoughts about someone or something. People who have a jealousy tend to have a lot of anger, sadness, hatred, and etc. in them. This is experienced in every culture. Why people feel jealousy is that it leads back to insecurity. My thing is people say they are not jealous or insecure, well then what is it? People who do it out of amusement are cruel. No matter how many times they aren’t insecure, it is like that. People need to be comfortable with themselves before they can make other people happy.